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New Baby Rules for New Visitors
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New Baby Rules for New Visitors

  I’m about to break down the new baby rules for you and most of you aren’t going to like it but here goes. When a baby is born, the most important person in the room is… the mama. That’s right. The mother. And what mama wants should be what mama gets.   Before the…

How to Make Holiday Babies Feel Extra Special
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How to Make Holiday Babies Feel Extra Special

Holiday babies: the gift that keeps on giving. Five years ago, my daughter was born on Christmas Eve. Even though the thought of her being born so close to the biggest holiday of the year was super special and exhilarating, it wasn’t exactly ideal. I was a bit nervous about her future birthdays potentially being…

I Totally Wowed with This Budget-Friendly Birthday!
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I Totally Wowed with This Budget-Friendly Birthday!

Birthday parties are so much fun! Decorations, super cute themes, games, cake and children screaming for hours! Maybe not the screaming part, but hey, that’s what wine is for. Birthday parties are great, but I must admit that I don’t love attending birthday parties as much as planning them. It can be stressful, time-consuming and expensive (not to mention not altogether…

Black Fathers Are Actually Winning at Parenthood
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Black Fathers Are Actually Winning at Parenthood

“Black Fathers Don’t Pull Their Weight.” This is the consensus, right? It’s interesting that we sit back and believe that garbage. It’s time to shatter, crush, and dismantle that lie. I’m about to tell you something that may blow your mind and change everything you know about everything.

Allergic To Crowds? 9 Reasons Why Amazon and I are BFFs

Allergic To Crowds? 9 Reasons Why Amazon and I are BFFs

Amazon Prime, you had me at “hello.” Shop ’til I drop? Yeah, no thank you. Amazon Prime and I are BFFs. Like, super-duper close. We can finish each other’s sentences, we are always chatting…day or night. While everyone else is wrapped up in the hustle and bustle of Christmas shopping, this mom is on the…

Why Motherhood Should Never Be a Competition
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Why Motherhood Should Never Be a Competition

Motherhood is not a race, I’m throwing in my towel. Do you ever feel lousy because you are so busy peeking into your neighbor’s yard, looking at all they have, that suddenly your own property becomes….blah? So consumed with checking out other families with their “perfect kids” and “perfect life” that you’re overlooking your entire…

No Overspending! Budgeting the Holidays Like a Boss
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No Overspending! Budgeting the Holidays Like a Boss

Budgets, Shopping, Sanity…..OH MY! Well Mamas, it’s here. It’s that wonderful time of the year when life becomes a whirlwind of winter recitals, weekend gift shopping and holiday parties. Want to know how to survive this holiday season without losing your mind or blowing your budget into oblivion? Fear not, Sassy Mamas. We’re here to…

How I Discovered My Son Still Needs My Kisses

How I Discovered My Son Still Needs My Kisses

When our children are newborn all the way up to toddler years, they really have no control over how much we kiss them. So I personally take FULL unapologetic advantage of this. I remember one day when one of these kids (can’t remember which) was maybe 5/6 months, I tried to actually keep a tally…

10 Reasons You Know You’re a Boy Mom

10 Reasons You Know You’re a Boy Mom

10 Reasons You Know You’re a Boy Mom I grew up in a blended family, according to what’s politically correct. My mom and dad both had children from previous relationships before they married, and then had three children together. In our immediate household, there were my two older sisters, me in the middle, and then…

10 Tips For Getting Your Child Out of Your Bed
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10 Tips For Getting Your Child Out of Your Bed

  Do you need to get your kids out of your bed? Sassy Plum can help! It took a while for my 7 year-old daughter to accept the idea of sleeping on her own. Every night between the hours of 12am-4am, she expertly and quietly maneuvered her way into our bedroom. This thief-in-the-night mastered the…

“He’s Just Like You, And He Has Autism.” How to Talk to Your Child
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“He’s Just Like You, And He Has Autism.” How to Talk to Your Child

Last night I had a conversation about diversity with my 4 year-old son. My little guy was coloring and practicing writing his name when he mentioned that a child on his sports teams doesn’t speak. “He doesn’t have any words, Mommy. It’s kind of weird.” I immediately stopped what I was doing. I knelt beside him and began…

10 Funny Halloween Thoughts Moms Can Relate To
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10 Funny Halloween Thoughts Moms Can Relate To

I love Halloween because it’s such a fun day! But I would be remiss if I didn’t share with you some of the funny thoughts that cross my mind during the course of the evening. Will my kids even wear their costumes? Many years, getting the kids to put on their costumes is such a…

Why We Shouldn’t Praise Our Children
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Why We Shouldn’t Praise Our Children

The church I attend has a Mom2Mom class and we’ve studied numerous books by the highly proclaimed childhood behavior expert, Dr. Kevin Leman. It was during one of these studies that I heard, for the first time, that we should NOT praise our children with the typical “yay, good job!” Instead, we were told to encourage them.

Fed Up! My Breakup Text To Target
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Fed Up! My Breakup Text To Target

*Texting* Mr. Target, I hate to put you on blast in a text. But we kind of need to talk. I’ve been thinking, and you know how I am when I get to thinking. It’s time for us to see someone else.  It’s not me this time, it’s you, my dear. Why do you do…