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New Mom Basics: The Art Of Saying “No”
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New Mom Basics: The Art Of Saying “No”

I got an interesting request the other day. It was from a friend asking me to host a Super Bowl party for “for everyone.” Why? “Because,” she wrote, “You have a big basement. All you have to do is finish the walls, fix the lights and bar and throw a party!” Notwithstanding the fact that…

New Baby Rules for New Visitors
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New Baby Rules for New Visitors

  I’m about to break down the new baby rules for you and most of you aren’t going to like it but here goes. When a baby is born, the most important person in the room is… the mama. That’s right. The mother. And what mama wants should be what mama gets.   Before the…

How to Make Holiday Babies Feel Extra Special
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How to Make Holiday Babies Feel Extra Special

Holiday babies: the gift that keeps on giving. Five years ago, my daughter was born on Christmas Eve. Even though the thought of her being born so close to the biggest holiday of the year was super special and exhilarating, it wasn’t exactly ideal. I was a bit nervous about her future birthdays potentially being…

Want a Job Promotion? Throw on Some Color!
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Want a Job Promotion? Throw on Some Color!

Color makes the world go round. Are you looking to stand out? Tired of the same boring grays, blacks (yes there are so many shades) and browns? Are you looking for ways to feel better about yourself? Throw on a little color! Did you know that people that wear bright colors may be more likely…

Why Some Feel Paid Maternity Leave Is Unfair
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Why Some Feel Paid Maternity Leave Is Unfair

Recently, I eavesdropped on a conversation and listened to a woman argue that paid maternity leave is completely unfair. The woman, who does not have children of her own, personally feels the effects of maternity leave because she works alongside many moms in the workplace. I couldn’t “unhear” the statement and decided to jump in. Just…

Are You Just Existing? 4 Steps to Live Your Purpose
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Are You Just Existing? 4 Steps to Live Your Purpose

By: Latrice McNeal Are you Living or Existing? It is 5am; the alarm goes off and I roll out of bed and jump in my shower while going over my to-do list. “Another day, another dollar, another chance for me to help the kids,” I thought to myself. I am making a difference and what…

Log Off, Shutdown, Reboot. Steps for Self-Care
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Log Off, Shutdown, Reboot. Steps for Self-Care

Has your groove ever been hacked and you feel the desire to go on strike from everything? Like, just kick your feet up and log out of life? CTRL-ALT-DLT…complete mom shutdown. Has motherhood ever been so emotionally taxing and physically draining that you feel the need to shove everything off your plate? I’m talking about, flipping…

I Totally Wowed with This Budget-Friendly Birthday!
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I Totally Wowed with This Budget-Friendly Birthday!

Birthday parties are so much fun! Decorations, super cute themes, games, cake and children screaming for hours! Maybe not the screaming part, but hey, that’s what wine is for. Birthday parties are great, but I must admit that I don’t love attending birthday parties as much as planning them. It can be stressful, time-consuming and expensive (not to mention not altogether…

Black Fathers Are Actually Winning at Parenthood
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Black Fathers Are Actually Winning at Parenthood

“Black Fathers Don’t Pull Their Weight.” This is the consensus, right? It’s interesting that we sit back and believe that garbage. It’s time to shatter, crush, and dismantle that lie. I’m about to tell you something that may blow your mind and change everything you know about everything.

Allergic To Crowds? 9 Reasons Why Amazon and I are BFFs

Allergic To Crowds? 9 Reasons Why Amazon and I are BFFs

Amazon Prime, you had me at “hello.” Shop ’til I drop? Yeah, no thank you. Amazon Prime and I are BFFs. Like, super-duper close. We can finish each other’s sentences, we are always chatting…day or night. While everyone else is wrapped up in the hustle and bustle of Christmas shopping, this mom is on the…

Born Still: Breaking the Silence and Normalizing Grief
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Born Still: Breaking the Silence and Normalizing Grief

  And then the world changed forever. It was May 9th, 2011, an evening that was filled with anticipation and jittery excitement. My sister was on her way to the hospital to have my nephew Isiah!!! She told me that the doctor sent her to the hospital to maybe get induced, but that if not she would…

Struggling, Hurting, Frustrated Moms. You Are Not Alone
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Struggling, Hurting, Frustrated Moms. You Are Not Alone

Moms from every walk of life. Struggling to stay strong, hurting from defeat, frustrated from exhaustion, you are not alone. We are bonded together all around the world, in our rain, enduring our connected pain. For the stay-at-home-moms. Dedicating your entire day to caring, teaching, cleaning up spills, and ALL other duties as assigned. When every…

Why Motherhood Should Never Be a Competition
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Why Motherhood Should Never Be a Competition

Motherhood is not a race, I’m throwing in my towel. Do you ever feel lousy because you are so busy peeking into your neighbor’s yard, looking at all they have, that suddenly your own property becomes….blah? So consumed with checking out other families with their “perfect kids” and “perfect life” that you’re overlooking your entire…